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toxic colleagues!I am fairly certain that the EPA won’t declare “The Office” (or your workplace) a hazardous waste site anytime soon, but according to Harvard Business research, maybe they should.

It’s not the perfume your co-workers are wearing, or the Indian food they are reheating in the microwave on the desk across from yours. In fact, it’s their mere sour presence that is making the workplace a toxic environment.

I can attest to this, as I work one of those jobs for little pay and less appreciation– except that I love what I do. I accidentally made a mistake six months ago and upset my boss’s boss. As a result, I am now treated like gum-on-sole-of-her-shoe by both her and her sweet but somewhat neurotic secretary.

Mistakes Happen

Trying to correct the mistakes you make in a toxic work environment is like backing your car up when you’ve accidentally sped through a toll booth. Nothing good can come of it, and in some cases, it might mean destroying all four tires and completely snarling traffic– all for the pittance they pay you.

Suggestions on reducing the toxic work exposure are welcome. Anyone know a company that sells a eco-friendly hazmat suit, cheap?

Sugar: My Lover, My Enemy

I was reading this awesome post by blogger Off White (while eating a Hershey’s bar) on how to reduce your sugar consumption. It has alot of great tips on reducing sugar intake in your daily like.

We all think that people who are vegan, or gluten-intolerant, or don’t drink margaritas daily are a bit weird. I know you are thinking it, because I am! Why would ANYONE give up delicious Wonder Bread or tequila or an Iowa Pork Producer’s-seasoned tenderloin?

The thing is: who could dislike sugar?! I love it. But here’s a story that might give you just an idea of what happens when you get too caught up with sugar.

The Lure of the Gummy Bear

The reason Gummy Bears are so awesome is that they fulfill the sugar need, while giving you a work out. It’s emotional eating paired with the food equivalent of the stress ball (pictured, in eco-friendly Earth shape.)

Back when I was waiting tables at PF Changs, I got into a terrible habit of stopping at the convenience store for gummy bears on my way to work. I ate them because about 8 p.m. (four hours into my shift, no break!), I’d be shifting from nice waitress to raving lunatic with low blood sugar. I also got the side-effect of popularity with other servers/managers, since I always had candy in my apron.

Well I started to realize that at about 3:30 p.m. everyday, I’d start thinking about that bag of gummy bears. And start longing for it.

I’m sure I also started to gain weight, though I can’t recall at the moment.

Giving It Up

So roundabout Mardi Gras time, I thought “This is ridiculous.” So I decided to give up all candy and all forms of chocolate for Lent.  I knew I had to say “all forms of chocolate” out loud (I told my mom), so that I didn’t get tempted to bake and eat an entire batch of brownies.

The first week was like torture. I don’t think my body was longing for it, but my mind was! But I resisted.

By the second week, I was happily off gummy bears, but missing sweets alot.

By third and four weeks, I was cruising. The longing was replaced with the idea of eating a pile of gelatinous sugar– blech!

Easter Basket of Buffalo Wings

OK, I didn’t really eat Buffalo Wings instead of gummy bears on Easter, but what I didn’t discover was this: I didn’t want the candy anymore. It had become a habit (like coffee is now) developed mentally. And deconstructed mentally.

Physically, however, I also felt great. It wasn’t just succeeding 40 day and 40 nights in gummy-bear-desert, but it got me to listen to my body,  notice my blood sugar and to think about solutions that don’t involve a quick buzz!

Clean+Green versus the Stink

(Thanks to SAHM Reviews and Sea-Yu for providing the product for this review.)

We have all kinds of smell producers in our house– compost, cat, dog, not-quite-poddy-trained twins, a cloth-diaper-wearing baby. We clean the litter box, the trash can, the compost bucket, the diaper pails regularly, but that doesn’t stop the smells from trying to take over.

I think with smells, generally, you one of two choices: 1) live with the odors and just get used to them; or 2) spray the house constantly with some odor-covering product to try and mask the scents. Baking soda may work in the fridge and in the washer, but it’s messy for other application. Our trash can is clumped with it and it still reeks.

So I was asked to try Clean+Green (Sea-Yu) products, sent to me by awesome Mom blogger SAHMReviews. The products are “all natural and pet-safe” according to their packaging. I’ve given them the run-around here’s the results:

To read complete review: Click Here!

There are lots of things that are NOT easier to do with four kids under the age of five. Chainsaw sculptures, for example. And sherpa-ing up Mount Everest.

But really, little kids make it fairly easy to be green. Here are some good reasons:

1. Kids like to play with boxes so no need to invest in toys!

2. Kids think compost is cool (as long as they don’t have to smell it).

3. Kids will hand you the clothespins while you hang the clothes on the line.

4. The last place the kids want to be is in the car. “Mommy, I want to ride my bike. Mommy, let’s go for a walk with the wagon.” Kids basically hate being strapped down in car seats, mostly because they are little engines themselves.

5. Kids like to help. They aren’t very good at actually weeding the vegetable garden, but they are enthusiastic anyway!

6. Rotating toys, shoes, etc. works on little kids. They forget about that doll or pair of second-hand shoes for awhile (because you tucked them away),and they are totally psyched to see them again! Reuse!

7. Kids love the moon, pink twilight, spider webs, cicadas shells, acorns (see above) and all other manner of natural marvels that we get kind of immune to as we get older.

8. Kids force you to eat at home more, because that’s where they are happiest. And eating at home means control of the product!

I’m thinking about this because I know a lot of parents who make excuses for not recycling or who are agog that we use cloth diapers and hang clothes on the line (How do you have the time/energy?!)

All I think is– what matters to you comes out in your life, through the cracks, especially. And nothing is more cracked than a parent trying to keep it together as they raise their kids the best way they can.

I just try to remember– I know they are watching and they are listening.

yeah, so this is just to report that as of this summer, Colin and I have been using the same four or five glass Snapple bottles to refill and drink water from. FOR TWO YEARS.

Am I bragging? Duh. I mean if you haven’t seen NYC’s Take Back the Tap campaign, surely you’ve heard about it on at least one major news resource? Our nation’s largest city, touting the glories of tap water? How very gauche… or is it?

In particular, I like UpperGreenSide’s post about how and why to drink tap water. It’s well researched and I like that she used a photo of Fiji brand water, which is REALLY expensive — I think in direct correlation to how much it costs to fly there.

To me, it’s pretty simple: in a litigious nation as we are, is only sensible to drink tap water. Public utilities have way too much at stake to let our water bunge up our bowels. And as a nation of risk takers, this could be another way to get a little high everytime you swig.

Bottoms up!

idiot badgeThere are many reasons we can each say to ourselves “Yeah, I could do better here for sure” when it comes to being green.

Mine is that damn iPhone.

My friend Suzannah was heading to Prague for a 3 months to a year maybe and she had to get everything she could take into one, under-40-pounds suitcase.

So she asked me for advice. What did I tell her? Get rid of a pair of jeans, and you don’t need your iPhone.

Now the iPhone has nothing to do with the suitcase, but the suitcase and the subject of “less” is how we got to “iPhone-less life.”

“Get a topup,” I said. “All you do is text anyway.”

She sputtered, blinked. “But my whole life is in here.

Yeah, mine too. I get it. How can I live without updating my Facebook status, playing Bejeweled 2 in any free minute I have, using google maps to find my way, or just generally clicking around, so that I won’t have to talk to much less look at the stranger on the tram next to me?

I Know What Begat My iPhone

I get it, because I remember when I got my iPhone. And when I got my first wireless headset. I remember when I got my first cell phone. I remember when I had my first cordless phone in the house, and when I had my first several cordless phones in my house. I remember thinking “What do I need this home phone for anyway?”

I remember when all my life was in my Classic Pooh address book and that book was up-to-date with phone numbers of the 80 or so people I actually cared to stay in contact with, about half of whom received Christmas cards every year.

Then came Yahoo. And email. Then Gmail, and cordless phones, cell phones, wireless, and internet, then 3 G and internet in my phone with Facebook there to keep me company with all the people I’d thought I’d left behind.

Sputter, sputter. Blink. So Suzannah. Wasn’t thinking.

Our Town (Stratford) has announced it is making its bicentennial hazardous waste collection on this JUNE 27th from 8 to 1 at the town’s transfer station.

I am excited because that means I can stop pouring our my toxic chemicals such as lead paint, weed killers and Diet Coke down the nearby gutter. I always feel guilty when I dump chemicals down the sewer– and not just because the sewer reads “Leads directly into the Long Island Sound” — but what can you do? I mean, I’m not going to just leave them around the house where anyone I care about can get sick off of them.

Our Town is definitely Anywhere, USA. We have the bare minimum of recycling amenities (I call them that because they really are treated like an “extra”) around here, despite the fact that when you drive down the street on recycling day, virtually every house has a bin at the curb. Fortunately we do have a pretty advance system of collecting and recycling bottles and cans. That involves a sweaty guy on a bicycle with two black trash bags who rides around on the night before recycling to rifle through our bins. Hey, it’s backbreaking work, but it’s a globally-friendly living. God bless the bottle law.

But what the heck? We can’t be expected to change over night. these things take time. Better to take it slow and stick with what you know.

Meanwhile, keep in mind that latex paints aren’t accepted in the hazardous waste pickup. Those Aluminum cans with the hardened rubber paint should just be tossed out with the regular trash.

Cheers!

I received word from new organizer Sherri Brooks Vinton that Westport Farmer’s Market is opening for the season this weekend (May 21). Here’s her announcement:

I am thrilled to announce the season opening of the Westport Farmers’ Market, this Thursday, 5/21 from 10-2 at our NEW LOCATION, the Imperial Avenue commuter parking lot (adjacent to the Woman’s Club).

Come by, check out our new waterfront space and get yourself some spectacular, local food.  You can even pull up a chair in our new community tent–a 40 seat area where you can meet your friends, enjoy some market treats and take in the music and cooking demos that we will be featuring every week.

After fighting this week with my mother-in-law over NO MORE PLASTIC TOYS! (yes, we did ask her to take the plastic play structure back to the garage sale), I personally can’t wait to take the kids to see REAL FOOD and REAL FARMERS!

So I’d love to know: What’s your favorite market?

The Books We’re Not Buying

I think I might be a bad person. Gosh darn it! Not ANOTHER enviro-existential dilemma!

I love you! Is it so wrong?

I love you! Is it so wrong?

Here’s the thing… I LOVE Paperbackswap. It’s this cool, low-key website where you just list the paperbacks — well, any old book you have lying around the house that has an ISBN really — online and forget about it.

Then someday, magically, you get an email from some stranger! And voila. You can print out a mailer and off  the book goes to a new home where it is loved.

Yes, you do pay postage to send the book off. But here’s the thing. Everytime you send the book away, YOU get a credit for a book yourself! Then YOU can be the mysterious stranger asking for things in someone else’s email. Cool! AND paperbackswap. com starts you out with 2 free welcome credits, so our yearning for instant gratification is fulfilled!All for the low price of US postage book rate.

Right now, charter members (I’m one! Well smart Colin is…) get the service for free, though founder/prez Richard Pickering is hinting that there will eventually be a $10-20 service fee per year. Like an co-op I reckon.

Dilemma Revealed: Am I Shooting Myself in the Foot?

So naturally this does NOT seem at all like a bad thing, eco-speaking. For actual paperbacks, there generally requires no packaging other than the printed mailer sheet. And even larger books can be sent in padded envelopes that you can then REUSE (who doesn’t love that?) on the next book you send away.

BUT, I mean, as much as I love the whole “free” thing, I have to admit– I would like to get paid (hint, hint!) for writing SOMEDAY! Won’t this constant cycle of book-cycling keep members from BUYING books in general? What do you think? Publishing death by Paperbackswap? I’m a bit worried.

But.. like my irrational love for Facebook, I suppose that won’t stop me from using this useful and friendly tool until someone gives me a good reason not to. After all, for now I’ll cling to the bizarro notion that any concept that promotes reading of ACTUAL books can’t be all bad.

Added Bonus:

Here’s just a few Great Books that I LOVE, available on Paperbackswap. For free! (Please note that I was not paid to write this post, in cash OR books! If you decide to join, use us as a referral! Our nickname is “howlips”)

The Shipping News by Annie Proulx
A Fine Balance by Rohinton Mistry
Join Me by Danny Wallace (only one copy!)
Enduring Love by Ian McEwan
Possessing the Secret of Joy by Alice Walker

So I live in a smallish town of 50,000, in New England. For those of you not from this part of the country, the New English people take political landscaping to an entirely different level than anywhere else I have ever been.

For example, in Connecticut there is no real county government. Instead, there are 169 “municipalities” that all have their own way of doing things. In the case of road maintenance, for example, the municipalities, in total have 17,115 road miles that they are required to maintain… 4.5 times the number that the State maintains. As a result, the sheer cost of road maintenance (hmmm, every town has their own rules, storage sheds, equipment, crews) is enormous.

The only thing consistent across the municipalities is the State law requiring that a very bored looking police officer be on every roadwork site, either sitting in his squad car reading a Harlequin Romance, or chatting with one or more of the otherwise-idle workers about the imminent threat of terrorism in Stratford.

Old People Can Recycle Too!

Old People Can Recycle Too!

So, fast forward to this week, when I started to research the RECYCLING PROGRAM in Stratford. I was curious about it because I discovered that even though I was not allowed to toss certain plastic items in my curbside bin (salad containers, yogurt cups), they were completely acceptable if I would only DRIVE THEM to the town recycling center. This is the case with cardboard as well– accepted at the Town Site but not curbside.

Inefficiency through Ignoring-ance

So I took a peek online at the Recycling Committee of the Town of Stratford. The committee is appointed by Town Council, with two-year terms. I thought Hey, if there’s a space available, maybe I can get appointed. After all, the state of recycling in Stratford (much like the state of their restaurants), is YEARS behind such towns as Andover, Mass. with its extensive but standard program, and other town programs managed by RecycleBank’s points program,  initiated in Maple Grove, MN, Sioux Falls, SD and other parts of the nation considered “wildly progressive” by East Coast standards.

It isn’t a surprise that ALL of the terms of the members of the Town of Stratford Recycling Committe are expired (most for more than 5 years) and that the committee is for all intents, defunct. The program like many in the this municipal-fixated state, is languishing in mediocrity  while the staunch New Englanders refuse to consider townline-bending systems that would reduce cost and increase creative involvement.

Throwing the Eldery Out with the Bath Water?

Stratford, like many places in Connecticut, is stagnant because of a unique combination of wealth and weariness. I am too old and too set in my ways to change. Plus, I can afford to throw my trash away! The power of that stagnancy has its own snowball effect here, causing entire swathes of useful, thoughtful people to be swallowed up by its mind-numbing ignorance.

We don’t have to be mummified before we are dead, fortunately. Inactivity and ineluctable stubbornness doesn’t have to be the hallmark of “real America”– New English or otherwise.

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